Thursday I attended a luncheon hosted by the Perfect Wedding Guide at The Curtis hotel downtown. We were delighted with gorgeous table settings, flowers, and food, followed by a presentation by planner Susan Southerland! She gave a very entertaining and informative talk about the four different types of brides, and the best way to create a working relationship with them!
I wanted to highlight this talk on my blog for both the benefit of the brides (and grooms) reading it, as well as the vendors! If a bride can determine which category she falls in (or closest to), then she will know more what to ask for from her vendors! Alternatively, a vendor can use the information to better assist their client, so that their vision of a perfect wedding can become a reality!
4 TYPES OF BRIDES:
Are you:
Savvy- very organized and completely in tune with all the details such as guest count, budgeting, and the costs of everything, and also knows exactly what she wants her wedding to look and feel like. *Your planner can help you by allowing you to relieve some of the burden of details on them. This will allow you to enjoy the planning process and your wedding day more!
Functional- very organized and in tune with the numerical details involved in planning, but aren't sure how to turn those details into a beautiful wedding. *Your planner can help you by showing you lots of examples of tables, china, albums, etc., and getting your creative juices flowing with color palates, swatches, and brainstorming! Once you can put visual ideas together with your numerical information, the wedding of your dreams will start to come to life!
Visionary- you have the perfect vision of what you want your wedding to look, feel, and taste like, but you have no idea about where to start, or how much any of it is going to cost. *Your planner can help you by making customized budget sheets and detailed lists of the planning steps. They can help you get an estimated guest count and stay on track of your budget. They can help you narrow down your choices and find options that adhere to the overall look you want, but are within reach of your budget!
Bewildered- don't be afraid if this describes you, because it describes the majority of the brides out there! The idea of starting to plan your wedding completely overwhelms you and you really don't have any ideas about the type of wedding you want, or how much it is going to cost. *Your planner can help you by customizing checklists and budget sheets, but also by giving you a couple options in each category of planning that fall within your budget. As you work together, a vision of what your wedding will look like will slowly start to come together!
Don't be afraid to let your planner or vendors know which type best describes you! In the end, it will create a wonderful working relationship that will end with the wedding of your dreams!
learn more about Susan Southerland and her ideas here.